Vampy Gray Day

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“Why so seriousss?” I have to say that one of the more interesting parts of this blog has been taking outfit photos. Sometimes, it has been a lot of fun. Sometimes it has been equal parts trying. Sometimes I genuinely wonder why I am having pictures taken of myself at all!

Case in point– the beyond serious looks I am casting in a few of these photos. Despite the serious appearance of my face I can assure that I don’t take myself too seriously. This outfit is a testament to gray scale, and the saving grace that black, gray, charcoal and the like can be in your wardrobe.

Perplexed about what to wear? Tired of mediocre wardrobe choices? Go back to black. Black will give you that pulled together look time after time. The cognac bag and booties, let’s just chalk those up to points of flare for this outfit. But in a pinch I’d sub these saddle leather boots for a suede pair of black heals and a sleek black clutch and call it good.

As for taking yourself too seriously. Doesn’t reality remedy those pangs on the daily?!? Have a seriously wonderful Thursday, friends!

XX, Megan

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Sweater: Old Navy, Pants: H&M, Booties: Sam Edelman, Bag: Etsy, Necklace: Gorjana, Sunglasses: Ray-ban, Lips: Revlon Black Cherry

Butternut Squash Soup: Two Versions

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More fall food fare here on Refined + Rugged. I am licking my lips just thinking about this delicious soup. I served it this past weekend at our 3rd annual Pumpkin Carving Party!!! In actuality, I think we may have carved pumpkins the first year, but each year as the kiddos have grown and the invite list has gotten longer, we really haven’t carved any pumpkins that evening!!

I make a Butternut Squash Soup every year, and friends usually bring a couple different flavors. This year we enjoyed a dynamite White Chili from David, and a delicious homemade Chicken Noodle Soup from Liza (read EVEN THE NOODLES WERE HOMEMADE!!!).

I am posting both recipes for squash soup that I enjoy. The first comes from The Scramble. This is the soup I made for our par-tay this year. I liked this soup because of the light apple notes. A great fall bouquet of flavors, plus I subbed shallots for the onion. It was SOOOOO yummy!

The second soup also includes curry and boasts a little dose of heavy cream. It has some lower, smoother flavors. The second recipe has been is my go-to Squash Soup for years, and it is an ALWAYS favorite!!! You can’t go wrong with either recipe. I’d love to hear your feedback. Which did you make? What were your thoughts on the flavor? With out further ado…

On with the SOUP!!!

XX, Megan

Ingredients

2 Tbsp. butter
1 sweet yellow onion such as Vidalia or Walla Walla, chopped
3 – 4 lbs. butternut squash, peeled, seeded and diced
1 red apple, such as Gala or Fuji, peeled and diced
1 tsp. curry powder
1/2 tsp. ground ginger, or use 1 Tbsp. fresh minced ginger
1/8 tsp. ground cinnamon
3 cups reduced-sodium vegetable or chicken broth
1 Tbsp. extra virgin olive oil (optional)
1/4 cup fresh sage leaves (optional)
2 Tbsp. apple cider, or use apple butter or apple juice
1/2 cup reduced-fat sour cream or plain yogurt (optional)

Directions

In a large stockpot, melt half the butter over medium heat, and when it is bubbling, add the onions. After about 3 minutes, add the squash and apples, and sauté with the onions for about 5 minutes. Add the curry powder, ginger and cinnamon and cook for 2 more minutes. Add the broth, raise the heat and bring it to a boil, then cover and simmer it for 15 minutes, reducing the heat as needed, until the squash is tender. (Meanwhile, prepare the salad, if you are serving it.) Puree the soup in a standing blender or in the pot with an immersion/hand blender.

Meanwhile, to make the crispy sage leaves, in a small skillet, heat the remaining butter and the oil over medium to medium-high heat. When it is hot, add the sage leaves and cook them until they are brown and crispy, about 2 minutes. Remove them from the heat.

Stir the apple cider into the soup, and serve it hot, seasoned with coarse salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste, and topped with crumbled leaves of crispy sage, if desired.

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Butternut Squash Curry Soup

Two things about this recipe: 1. It’s better made the day before serving. The curry has a chance to really augment and it tastes much better. 2. I just buy a squash and use whatever I get out of that. I’ve never come up with 3 cups, but it doesn’t seem to diminish the soup.

Ingredients
1 small onion
1/4 cup chopped celery (I at least double)
2 tablespoons butter or margarine
2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon chicken bouillon granules
1/2 teaspoon dill weed
1/4 teaspoon curry powder (I double)
dash cayenne pepper
2 cups chicken broth
1 (12 ounce) can evaporated milk (I use half and half because I like
it better, but the original is fine too.)
3 cups mashed cooked acorn squash
salt and pepper to taste
5 bacon strips, cooked and crumbled

Directions
In a large saucepan, saute the onion and celery in butter. Stir in flour, bouillon, dill, curry and cayenne until blended. Gradually add broth and milk. Bring to a boil; cook and stir for 2 minutes. Add the squash, salt and pepper; heat through.

In a blender, process the soup in batches until smooth. Alternatively, you can use an immersion blender to smooth your soup. Pour into bowls; garnish with bacon.

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Creamy Cable

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Haven’t tired of these flares yet. In fact, they are a fabulous wardrobe update and throwback all in one piece. To take your favorite pants into winter you need nothing more than to pair them with your favorite sweater, a close-toed shoe, and whatever piece of flare you choose.

I’ve got my eye on a round pair of sunglasses just to pair with these pants, that’s how  much I am loving the 70s resurgence this season. Stay tuned, I’m sure I will find a feasible way to pair these flares with snow boots. (I’m laughing at myself right now!) A girl can dream, right?

Have a wonderful day, and a blessed week!

XX, Megan

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Sweater: J.Crew (old, current season), Pants: Madewell (or this darker wash), Bag: Madewell (not available on Madewell’s site, but still over at Shop Bop), Shoes: Toms, Sunglasses: Ray-ban (or here), Lips: NARS Barebella

Fall Forward

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This weekend most of us will have the blessed (read government mandated) opportunity to participate in Daylight Savings Time. You know the saying Fall Forward!

I always forget which one of these “savings times” gives me another hour of sleep as opposed to making me feel as though I am being ripped from my warm bed at 5:30 a.m. rather than 6:30 a.m. But for purposes of this post, that information is neither here nor there.

I did a Fall Style Mash-up earlier this season for both gals and guys, but I wanted to follow up with an edit geared more toward winter. The winter toward which we are also falling (though not fast enough for my husband and his ski buddies). Above are some of my current winter favorites, below are links to the deets!

Have a wonderful Friday, a fabulous weekend, and a safe and Happy Halloween!!!

XX, Megan

Clockwise from top Left with the Middle square coming in at #9, here’s to Falling Forward in Fashion!!!

1. Faux Fur Stole

2. Bar Necklace

3. Cashmere Turtleneck

4. Keep out the Cold Coat

5. Dainty Diamond Eyes

6. The Perfect Skinny Black Jeans

7. Pattern Mixing Tote

8. Kickin’ it EVERYWHERE Booties

9. Lumber Jane Must-have Shirt

Jewel Pantones

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Color saturation happening over here on Refined + Rugged today. Trying to make as much ocular noise in this pristine environment as possible! 😉

Plus, have I mentioned how much I love sweater weather? LOVE. Really just the sweater part, but dipping temps enable the ability to wear items that were knit from animals that go BaH. So I’ll add weather in there, too.

I always find myself talking to you, my dear reader, when I write these posts. I mean, that is the purpose of posting, I suppose, to reach out to your audience. To have a proverbial chat as it were across the internets.

But sometimes I realize that I come across as though my wardrobe advice is made up of little quips. Like today, for example, I’d stand next to you in front of your closet and say, “Let’s do some color blocking with the most jewel, maybe most garish colors you can pull of your hangers!”

Then you’d grab a silky guava button up, a BRIGHT pair pants, your favorite leopard heels and call it a WIN! (Extra points for a cobalt coat!) Wow. You might look like an attention seeker, or you might just look AWESOME!

TGIT!

XX, Megan

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Sweater: J.Crew, Pants: Old Navy, Bag: Kate Spade (similar, splurge, save), Sunglasses: Karen Walker Super Duper, Cuff: Banana Republic (similar), Shoes: Enzo Angiolini (similar, splurge, save), Earrings: Gift (similar), Lips: MAC Candy Yum-yum