Orzo, Arugula, Olive, and Pecan Salad

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Let’s pretend these photos were taken in an Old World Italian kitchen, shall we? Then I don’t have to feel bad that I don’t know my camera settings well enough to realize they are off until I’m previewing the pictures on my computer! I should probably invest in a class from the community college here in town.

Well, here are the slightly grainy pictures, but still DELECTABLE salad offering for your Wednesday from The Scramble. You can bet I had a couple “test” bites of this salad after I made it, as we are having this meal real-time tonight for dinner! It was delicious! As always, I’d love to hear your feedback. I subbed pecans for the walnuts in the original recipe because I had them on hand. What are you cooking up tonight for dinner?!?

XX, Megan

Ingredients for Main Dish

3/4 cup orzo (use wheat/gluten-free if needed)
1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil
1 – 2 Tbsp. balsamic vinegar, preferably with a light flavor like orange or raspberry
6 oz. arugula, coarsely chopped, or use baby spinach (about 3 cups)
20 pitted kalamata or Italian olives, sliced into thirds
1/2 cup walnuts, lightly toasted (about 6 minutes at 300 degrees, or 3-5 minutes on a skillet on the stovetop)
1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese

Side

Your favorite loaf of whole grain bread.

First, start the orzo boiling in salted water, cook according to the package directions. Meanwhile, heat a small skillet and toast the walnuts/pecans for 3-5 minutes, stirring as they heat. While the nuts are toasting, you can mix the olive oil and the balsamic vinegar in a large measuring cup. Set aside. Slice the olives in thirds. In a large serving bowl, combined the arugula, olives, and walnuts/pecans (after they’ve cooled).

Drain the orzo, allow to cool for a few minutes. Then add it to the salad mixture along with the dressing. Allow the entire salad to cool for a few more minutes and then add the parmesan. Alternatively, you can reserve the parmesan to add to the salad when serving! Serve immediately, or refrigerate for 2 days.

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Boil

Boil the orzo on the stovetop according to the package directions.

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Toast

Meanwhile, toast the nuts in a small skillet for 3-5 minutes until they begin to smell fragrant.

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Mix

Combine the olive oil and the balsamic vinegar in a small bowl and whisk together.

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Slice 

Slice the olives in thirds, and combine all of the ingredients.

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EAT!

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Palm Trees and Pink Bags

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Take me back! I was not kidding about this past week of hard WORK! We have been going great guns on our fence and yard. I’ve been doing prep work throughout the day, and when my husband gets off of work we’ve hit the ground running. Some late night work sessions have lasted past 11 p.m. because we’ve also been trying to work around on and off thunderstorms!

But these outfit scenes didn’t have much work involved. In fact, sometimes the most effort my friend Mel and I had to bend to our day was deciding where we would brunch before hitting the pool deck for sunshine and pure relaxation! Rough life, I tell you. Rough.

This white shift was the perfect little number to beat the heat and doubled easily as a cover-up. When we planned our little getaway, we didn’t realize that we had scheduled ourselves to be gone over Mother’s Day. When I brought this up to my husband he laughed and said amiably, “Oh, well! I guess you won’t have to struggle to sleep in and have a crappy breakfast in bed. Don’t you think Palm Springs sounds better?” Sweet man.

While I did miss my boys from the biggest to the littlest while we were gone, the trip was SUCH a glorious break. Perfect, perfect destination for a Girls Weekend. We stayed at the La Quinta Resort and Spa, which was actually located in La Quinta, California. I would recommend the resort to ANYONE.

Beautiful, low-key, luxurious, dog friendly, and a place where we eventually determined you truly could take your kids for an escape as well! At least we both agreed our kids could just spend the entire vacation in the POOL! Thank you to my best friend for these photos and for the most AMAZING girls getaway!

While your Tuesday may not include palm trees, I hope it does involve smiles, sunshine, and a delicious brunch!

XX, Megan

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Dress: J.Crew Factory (similar, also fun, similar), Sunglasses: Karen Walker ‘Super Duper’, Bag: Kate Spade (similar, save), Sandals: J.Crew (25% off!), Bracelet: Banana Republic, Swimsuit: Top and Bottom

Mondays in May, Get Moving: Manual Labor

Fence Close Shot Yes. I originally had a book review of The Invention of Wings scheduled for today. I will return to that review in June, because today is another MONDAYS IN MAY, GET MOVING post! Yes, admittedly, I forgot that this was the programme until this morning!!!

Today I want to talk about a form of work, or working out that ISN’T as dear to my heart, but CAN be an INTEGRAL part of good fitness, good health, and an overall good work ethic. I am talking about the merits of MANUAL LABOR.

I hope to encourage us all (me especially!) not to forget that physical activity can also be motivated by WORK. Case in point, my everyday since returning from Palm Springs (yes, it was a harsh awakening back into the world of home ownership).

I have to be honest and state that outdoor chores are not my very favorite endeavor. For me, it seems much more straightforward, easy, manageable to get my work out at the gym or on a dedicated activity such as running, biking, swimming, or paddling.I am not one to wake up in the morning and say, “Hmmm, what am I going to do in my yard today to burn some calories.”

Maybe I need a paradigm shift! Maybe I needed this shed, fence, deck project– otherwise known as #shedfencedeck– as a reminder that good old hard physical labor can be a GREAT WAY to GET ACTIVE and GET MOVING!!! (And wear yourself out! I am pooped after all of our labor!) DSC_0002 I am willing to guess that many of you Refined + Rugged readers are already well-versed and maybe well immersed in the ways of yard work, garden work, manual WORK!

Every Spring construction and renewal are a HUGE part of the daily life of many, many of us. So what I’m saying is that many of you are probably saying, DUH. I already knew that I could smash some calories and get fit while I upkeep my home and garden. DUH.

For those of you who are a bit more skeptical I’ve complied a list of some the top manual labor calorie burners. As well as linked to some expert opinion articles to bolster my stand: here, here, here, here, here.

MANUAL LABOR CALORIE BURN (outdoor)

Shoveling snow: 400-600 calories per hour

Heavy yard work (landscaping, moving rocks, hauling dirt): 400-600 calories per hour

Raking and bagging leaves: 350-450 calories per hour

Outdoor construction and remodeling: 250-300 calories per hour

Gardening: pulling weeds, planting flowers, etc.: 200-400 calories per hour

Mowing the lawn: 250-350 calories per hour

Washing the car: 175-250 calories per hour

MANUAL LABOR CALORIE BURN (indoor)

Major cleaning (turning mattresses, washing windows and blinds): 175-250 calories per hour

Moderate housecleaning (laundry loads, mopping and sweeping, vacuuming): 150-200 calories per hour

Light housecleaning (dusting, straightening up, taking out the trash): 120-170 calories per hour

Child care: 300-600 calories per hour (depending on how old the kids are and how active they are)

If you don’t want to jump into yard work just yet, pick an indoor chore to stay active and fit. I mean, if I can burn up to 600 calories per hour playing tag with my boys, why not? If I can get a physical boost from Spring Cleaning I had better go after it!!!

Yes. I spent my weekend staining every single board for our fence. That meant that a couple nights we were up until 11:30 p.m. staining and screwing! There are pictures below of all of our current projects: shed, deck, fence. You can see our late night fencing in the last shot. I love the dark of the night against the trees and the glow of the fence in the industrial work light we borrowed from our neighbors.

I don’t know specifically how many calories I burned, but I can tell you that my back and arms and hands ached every night it was time to crash into bed. Seems to me that my body was experiencing a really good, rather intense work out. No gym. No dedicated path required! What are your favorite WORK tasks?

Have you experienced the healthy benefits of getting up and putting some elbow grease into it? Whether IT is deep cleaning the carpet, remodeling your kitchen, creating a new garden space, or maintaining your current yard, how do you get moving with manual labor? I’d love to hear!

Have a brilliant Monday!

XX, Megan

P.S. I really need to give credit where credit is due here. NONE of these project would have happened without my SUPERMAN of a husband. He has the most incredible work ethic of anyone I have ever met. In his day job, and in his constant commitment to make our home and yard a beautiful space and place to live! I am one very lucky gal! Thank you, babe!!!

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17 Summer Activities for Kids

IMG_2620 Summer is fast approaching! My kindergartener’s class is counting down the days till they are in 1st grade. 11 to go, I believe. That’s not much time to prep or at least think about what you want your summer to look like from a parenting perspective. What are some of your favorite summer activities?

XX, Megan

1. Horse Back Riding 

This is not something we’ve done yet. However, I use this as an example to encourage you/us parents to plan some fun activities that your family maybe hasn’t ever been involved in. It is great to know your wheel house, to know the things you love to do together and to do them again and again. I’m a fan. But sometimes it’s also good to do things that challenge you in new ways!

2. Swimming

Water. Anything with water. Everything with water. Just add water. Celebrate your Birthday with water. Eat your cupcake in your snorkel gear for crying out loud. Cupcakes make everything better. Swimming makes all of summer that. much. better! IMG_2657 3. Hiking

Listen friends, you don’t have to send your progeny on a death march. Really, when it comes to hiking with kids, just find a long walk in a beautiful place and call it a hike. We love to go to Dutch Hollow. We also love Mirror Lake. It’s over an hour away, but the boys can both tromp around the entire little lake in an hour. Perfect mini-excursion. We have high hopes to hike Mt. Nebo and Mt. Timpanogos with our kids in a few summers. But for little ones, keep it simple and relatively short!IMG_2930 4. Biking

We do a lot of biking around here because our Daddy is a cyclist. (Mom is an avid amateur!) Biking is a great way to get kids out and active, and you can also make this a family affair. I have many, many friends who will stroller their toddler and then have their school-age child bike along as they go for a run. A great all round summer activity.

5. Museums

Sometimes the temperature is searing. Like if you live in Phoenix and daytime temps reach 120. WHOA nelly! Days like this are perfect for an indoor activity. Hit up a local children’s museum or play place. We have always had luck at Natural History museums because they house so many things my kiddos are interested in. The picture below is outside of the Utah Field House of Natural History in Vernal, Utah. While the museum is not really very near to anything, it is worth a trip. It’s probably best to plan two days to see the Field House in Vernal as well as the Dinosaur National Monument Quarry and Visitors Center in Jensen, UT on the Colorado/Utah border.

Are you children more into art? Why not opt for an exhibit at a local art museum. Last summer my kiddos and their cousins visited The Leonardo in downtown Salt Lake. The exhibits at The Leonardo are constantly changing, but it was a fantastic and interactive experience! Check out some of the local spots in your area. It’s never too early to start instilling public niceties and polite museum manners in our kids. Summer is a great time to start. IMG_1436 6. Old-school games

My mother-in-law has amassed an awesome collection of some of the games that she played as a kid. (Trust me, you played them as a kid too.) Old school tidily winks, marbles, pick-up-sticks, jacks, hop scotch, jump rope. There are lots and lots of new games on the market. We just purchased some magformers for our boys and they LOVE them! But there is also fun to be had in games that have been around the block (literally) time and again.

7. Slip and Slide

Our boys were gifted a Slip and Slide two years ago and never could I have imagined the joy, laughs, and endless slips down the slide it would bring us. Slip and Slide has become on of our go-to activities every summer. Looking forward to the day we can roll that puppy out on the lawn and let the good times roll. But my anticipation can in no way match my boys’ who have been asking about the Slip and Slide since February. Enough said.

8. Sprinkler

If you don’t have a Slip and Slide, or want to purchase one, don’t forget the sprinkler. Nothing new-fangled or fancy here. Just a hose and  a sprinkler head and wha-la! A wonderful activity to engage children of all ages for hours! Don’t forget the sunscreen!IMG_3005 9. Picnic

The winter months put eating out-of-doors on the rocks. But a PICNIC is always a fun thing to do all summer long.

10. Playground

Don’t try to reinvent the wheel here. A few months ago an article circulated on the inter webs about the fact that “when we were small” our mothers and fathers turned us outside to play unattended and relatively unregulated day in and day our. In fact, I think the article mentioned something about the primary caregiver locking the door once the kids were out to pasture. While I have an open door policy ;), it’s true that you can get way too concerned with finding STUFF for your children to do. Don’t underestimate the importance of self-play!

11. Science Friday

I couldn’t help myself. I had to throw Science Friday, Refined + Rugged style, into this mix. Here’s why. Summer is the perfect time to institute Science Friday because, for some, fewer goings and comings mean that you can start up your practice without so many other obligations and alternative activities, i.e. SCHOOL. Without school cramping your schedule, think about jumping over to Kiwi Crate to the DIY Science Experiments and giving Science Friday a whirl. I promise you, and your littles, won’t be disappointed! IMG_3018 12. Yard Work/Chores

Let’s not leave work off of this list either. A friend of mine recently shared this article titled “Science Has Figured Out The Best Age To Start Giving Your Kids Chores”, from the blog Fatherly. She has done a fabulous job of setting her household up to include a very straightforward and consistent approach to chores for her three girls– 5, 3, and 1. I believe. (I’ll have to double check what the 1 year-old-contributes, but I wouldn’t be surprised if there were small tasks she was asked to complete.) Here’s the thing. Play is awesome. Fun is wonderful. Hanging out languidly on a lawn chair can be the bomb. So do all of those things. But don’t forget that your kids can contribute, even from an early age, to the maintenance and up-keep of the place you call home. There is nothing child labor, or untoward about it. Doing chores builds character as children learn a sense of responsibility and accomplishment that isn’t gained from recreating alone. This is probably one of my biggest summer goals. To establish age appropriate, consistent chores/tasks for my kids to participate in around our home and yard. Try it out! I’d love to hear your feedback!

13. Attrition Prevention

Before leaving the workplace for full-time parent status, my sister was a third grade teacher in Washington D.C. A few weeks ago I bemoaned to her the fact that I was SO OVER school. (I have tried to keep this attitude clear of my kids, but they are pretty perceptive individuals, so who knows.) Anyway, I am that mom who would like the cessation of school to coincide with April 30th. This May business is killing me!

My sister let me know that there are REAL reasons that we keep children in school as long as we do, and that there are curriculum in place to assist kids who have basically forgotten what they learned the previous year when they return to school. In her words, “Attrition is real.” So this Summer, why not add in some daily lessons to keep your children at pace with all of the knowledge they have hopefully gained this past school year. Reading, writing, and short mathematics lessons might do just the trick! IMG_3042 14. Eat popsicles

Okay, okay! I put this one on the list not only because it is my boys’ favorite thing to do. It is MY favorite pastime. Popsicles. YUM! I found some AWESOME watermelon popsicles. I am pretty sure they are POPSICLE brand. I tried to link them here but didn’t find them. Head to your local grocer’s freezer section and stock up now!

15. Camping

I am sure we have already established our love of camping for all readers of this blog! If you are interested in a good post about Camping with Kids, click here. If you are looking for a fabulous Summer activity the whole family can enjoy. Go camping! IMG_0281 16. Stargazing

This one is for the geek in all of us. My husband has dubbed the boys’ and me the Planeteers. I understand that stargazing with kids may be difficult depending on age. But all you really need is a dark, clear sky, and a star chart or star guide. There’s a printable version available HERE (this guide is updated monthly). Or you can order a simple plastic version for under $10.00 from Amazon, HERE. (Make sure you note the region of the world in which you live or you might end up with a guide to the sky over Brazil!) My little guys can already pick out Orion and sometimes the Big Dipper (Ursa Major). They are always curious as to the names of particular stars, and I don’t always have the answers.

This is really just an exercise in following your curiosity and seeing where it leads. Sometimes it’s to a discussion of the nubulea in Orion’s Belt, and sometimes it’s to endless pontification on the merits of moving to Mars or Jupiter (yes, our three-year-old has a desire to move off-planet. After he can drive, he’s pointed out!). Maybe this isn’t your realm and you want to debate the merits of mushrooms, or catalog trees, or start an epic rock collection. ANY and ALL of these would be awesome Summer pursuits.

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17. Sports

Throw a ball, organize a neighborhood run, score a goal. You don’t have to register for organized sports to do or play any (or most) of them! Or maybe you do want your child to learn a particular sport. Enroll them in a class at your local Rec or gym. Above all, get out there and PLAY!

1 Skirt, 3 Ways, Look 3

DSC_0044 - Version 2 DSC_0040 DSC_0043Hello, Friends! My last outfit featuring this skirt– that’s not to say that I won’t remix it again and again, and even post it on the blog, but for now– coming to you today.

This mix is a little of BOTH previous outfits– a little bit casual, a little bit dressy. The get-up is a more eclectic combination of the pleated leather midi. I added the heels simply because the pop of blue against the black really got me going.

I can imagine this skirt in so many other ways. Come fall with a soft cashmere sweater tucked in and a statement necklace. For a little more contrast, juxtaposed with a collared striped shirt. Or just as I first saw it, with a gorgeous polka dot top.

I cannot believe it is Thursday already! This week has flown. How about you? Hanging in there? Had a great one? I hope your Thursday brings you lightness and uplift!

XX, Megan

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Skirt: Banana Republic (on sale now! similarsimilar, splurge), Shirt: J.Crew, Vest: J.Crew, Sunglasses: Karen Walker ‘Super Duper’, Cuff: Vintage, Rings: Vintage